Mother’s Day Wish List

How well do you know your mom? I mean really know her. Do you know what her hopes and dreams are? Do you know how she takes her tea or what she would do on a Sunday morning at home alone? Where would she travel if money wasn’t an issue?

Do you know what she wanted to be when she grew up or what her greatest fear is? What was the worst thing she did as a teenager? Who was her first love or first kiss?

If you are younger she may not be ready to answer some of these questions but if you are a little older she might tell you.

The thing is, we often forget that our Mother’s are real people. They have hopes and dreams. They’ve had their heart broken and they have broken hearts too. For the most part, moms just do the mom thing, putting the needs of the family as a whole above anything they want or need. They tend to forget themselves that they are an independent human being. And they rarely ask for what they need or want.

I would like to challenge you to get to know your mom a bit for Mother’s Day. Look at the home she lives in, what colors and textures does she decorate with? What books does she read? What are her hobbies?

Ask her a few questions – basic or deep – your choice. Who is she, this woman who kept or keeps your family going? What makes her tick?

Don’t just buy a potted plant for Mother’s Day and call it a job well done. Dig a little. And try to buy something that is meaningful to her.

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And here are a few things on my Mother’s Day Wish List just in case you need some more inspiration.

Rwanda Sahara Raffia and Sweet Grass Round Basket – These Rwanda baskets give back and I wrote about them here.

Rwanda Raffia and Sweet Grass Round Bowls – Help women in Rwanda with this purchase

Schwinn Women’s Legacy 26″ Cruiser Bike- Blue/White – No one will expect mom to be an expert on this vintage inspired bike. She can take her time and enjoy the scenery!

Driftwood and Blown Glass Bowl – Perfect for a Beta or other small fish – I love the organic design.

‘Lucent Palms’ Print Caftan (Plus Size) – for comfy lounging, coffee sipping and book reading. Ahhhh!

It’s Never Too Late to Begin Again: Discovering Creativity and Meaning at Midlife and Beyond – This is a pre-order for Julia Cameron’s newest offering. If mom is the creative sort she is bound to love it! 

What have you learned about your mother? Anything that surprised or delighted you? Share your findings in the comments below.