Midlife: Becoming Who You Always Really Thought You Were
Midlife is a grand affair. It’s the equivalent of putting everything you’ve dealt with,…
Midlife is a grand affair. It’s the equivalent of putting everything you’ve dealt with,…
If you are nearing fifty you’ll want to have this book on hand. It’s kind of like the beginners manual for the great sisterhood of those who have been there, done that, and used the T-shirt to wipe away under-boob-sweat.
I’ve turned to the beautiful, young people in the gardening world, learning what I can about permaculture practices so I can keep gardening for a good, long time. Permaculture and women over 50 go hand-in-hand. Or at least they should.
Then it occurred to me that if I were in that situation with another woman over 50 she would have hung around to make sure I got on the road without incident. We just know these things. We do these things.
As I go through midlife I want more of those friends who are happy to see ME at their door and not running around out of breath because they felt they had to do a mad 20 minute house cleaning. I would rather have a chat with someone who was calm and inviting and thought to put coffee or tea on. Someone who is looking forward to a meaningful conversation as much as I am.
Birthdays after 50. “I don’t celebrate any more”. “Ugh, who wants to think about it?”
“Don’t remind me.” Birthdays after 50 are something to truly celebrate!
Sure, there are days I miss having my kids around, actually, almost every day for at least a few minutes. But I do have to say that now that I’m getting more used to them all being gone I can truly say it does have its benefits.